High Fidelity

Hmm ,well talking about fidelity I draw a big blank point in my head..Fidelity???hmmm totally unheard off...infidelity,yeah always hearing those things from all the celebrity magazines laying around.Those high glam celebrities breaking up and citing infidelity as a reason.What's actually fidelity?,to put it in a nice and simple word it means faithfulness to obligation,so you are only being faithful because you obliged to be?not because you want to be faithful?so am I being not faithful to my boyfriend by my innocent flirting with the cashier guy at KFC?Lets take a look at the classic wedding vow:

"I, (Name)
Take you,(Name),
To be my (wife/husband);
To have and to hold,
From this day forward,
For better,for worse,
For richer,for poorer,
In sickness and in health,
To love and to cherish,
"Till death do us apart"or(As long as we both shall live)

I don't see any promises to stay faithful.....I don't see any "to love,to cherish and to be faithful" For me fidelity is just an overrated excuse in a relationship.But by saying that I didn't mean to sound like a cheating girlfriend.Fidelity is someting that you do because you want to do that not because its a rule in a relationship.I'm being faithful to my boyfriend because I love him and its my way of honouring him.I'm not being faithfull because he wants me to do so its because I want to do so.This brings a world of differences in a relationship.Sometimes I wonder whether it is a virtue that is soon dying out from relationships.Forgive me please as I'm not interested in sounding so self righteousness but in relationship we pick n choose to be close to someone because there is that 'need' ,that 'urge' that 'something' in our nature that makes us want to be that special person to somebody.So we pick n choose and and once we've choosen we tend to stick close to that person,no matter how much we are hurt by them or we have hurt them.Once you have made the choice to be faithful to someone because its the right thing to do then its no more relationship,its an obligation.Its no more Love its Responsibility.